LESSONS.md gains 8-12: container has no IPv6 (AAAA fails before A, no
fallback), host IPv6 != container IPv6, VPS blocks all outbound SMTP
ports (relay over tailnet), sidecar needs a source ACL grant to
initiate, and MtaRoute changes only take effect on restart.
CLAUDE.md and .env.example warn that the smarthost address must be an
IPv4 literal or tailnet IP, never a dual-stack hostname. acl-snippet
adds the tag:stalwart -> tag:mail outbound grant.
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Over-engineered play stack for infinidim.net — Stalwart wired into the shared
Postgres + Redis + Garage S3 over the tailnet, with no WAN presence. Public
mail ports are fronted by a separate caddy-l4 layer-4 proxy (caddy/) that can
run on any tailnet host tagged tag:reverse-proxy — decoupled from the mailbox.
- docker-compose.yml: ts-stalwart sidecar + stalwart, backends via MagicDNS
- config/config.toml: PG (data/fts) + Redis (lookup) + S3 (blob) strawman
- caddy/: xcaddy build with caddy-l4, JSON layer-4 mail proxy, own compose
- acl-snippet.hujson: tag:stalwart owner + backend/edge grants
- .env.example + gitignored .env (pulled from shared infra)
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